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I have an open relationship with my girlfriend. She loves also another man. I love her as I have never loved before.She is all for me and We are more happier than we could be before. Why should I be an obstacle for her feelings? I am not!! Thanks for your ad, Clair! [Comment originally left on Channel4.com on 22/09/10]

Well said Clair. My life has become far more fulfilled now that three of us live together. It really is a case of being honest, respectfull and open to those you love. I also am a very lucky person to be loved by two partners. Many thanks Clair :) [Comment originally left on Channel4.com on 23/09/10 at 16:37]

I learned something from it.

If god didn't want people to commit adultery, then why did he make it possible for someone to love someone of the same sex?

This makes me feel inspired.

It helped me understand the speaker's point of view.

This is video is not about adultery. Adultery surely means having a relationship behind your partner's back. So if the various partners all know what's going on, it's not adultery! From my Buddhist perspecctive, the problem isn't the number of partners; it's whether there is honesty, transparency, kindness generosity etc in the relationship/s.

I found it an interesting that we don not question someone's love for more than one parent or more than one sibling and yet it is deemed inappropriate to love more than one partner.